about a month ago i went to las vegas with mi familia =) it was awesome to say the least.
Monday, August 24, 2009
the facts of life.
perfection is impossible. it's more possible for everyone to be the same person. the only perfect being is beyond our world and is not a human being at all.
love is inevitable. contrary to popular belief, when you run into that special someone, you'll know it and you won't be able to help falling in love with them, no matter how hard you try.
dudes like class. idk how many times i have heard a guy say, "damn, she's classy. i like that". even though they may seem to be searching for a quick chick, in the long run it's the girl with the intelligence, beauty and self-respect that will win a guy's heart.
life is about the journey, not the destination. you can not live your life just to make it to the other side. you have to enjoy the steps that you take along the way. live in the moment. learn from your mistakes. make a difference. cherish experiences and opportunities. if not, that destination will be meaningless and your sense of accomplishment will be flawed.
honesty will never go out of style. there's nothing that i enjoy more than pure honesty from a good friend. i love to know exactly what people are thinking even if it's not necessarily what i would like to hear. (#fact : you can win a girl's heart with honesty.)
never bite off more than you can chew. some people are the ultimate multitaskers. that's how they live their lives and they do so comfortably. don't try to do the most when you can not handle it. period. it will stress you out and leave you in mess. (this applies to every aspect of your life.)
put God first in everything you do and you will not fail. period.
nobody can do you, better than you. in other words, sex can wait. your future can't. don't let a dude determine your self worth by having sex with him. better yet, don't let ANYBODY determine your self worth at all.
beauty is in the eye of the beholder. open for interpretation.
if you think he/she will cheat, they will. idk how many times i have heard someone say, "he was looking at that little skinny girl with the wrap". and??? if you don't have the confidence that they'll stay, why would/should they ?
everything is good in moderation. too much of anything has the potential of being bad for you -- even if you can't directly see the negative effects. i.e. sex is better when you don't have it every day.
love is inevitable. contrary to popular belief, when you run into that special someone, you'll know it and you won't be able to help falling in love with them, no matter how hard you try.
dudes like class. idk how many times i have heard a guy say, "damn, she's classy. i like that". even though they may seem to be searching for a quick chick, in the long run it's the girl with the intelligence, beauty and self-respect that will win a guy's heart.
life is about the journey, not the destination. you can not live your life just to make it to the other side. you have to enjoy the steps that you take along the way. live in the moment. learn from your mistakes. make a difference. cherish experiences and opportunities. if not, that destination will be meaningless and your sense of accomplishment will be flawed.
honesty will never go out of style. there's nothing that i enjoy more than pure honesty from a good friend. i love to know exactly what people are thinking even if it's not necessarily what i would like to hear. (#fact : you can win a girl's heart with honesty.)
never bite off more than you can chew. some people are the ultimate multitaskers. that's how they live their lives and they do so comfortably. don't try to do the most when you can not handle it. period. it will stress you out and leave you in mess. (this applies to every aspect of your life.)
put God first in everything you do and you will not fail. period.
nobody can do you, better than you. in other words, sex can wait. your future can't. don't let a dude determine your self worth by having sex with him. better yet, don't let ANYBODY determine your self worth at all.
beauty is in the eye of the beholder. open for interpretation.
if you think he/she will cheat, they will. idk how many times i have heard someone say, "he was looking at that little skinny girl with the wrap". and??? if you don't have the confidence that they'll stay, why would/should they ?
everything is good in moderation. too much of anything has the potential of being bad for you -- even if you can't directly see the negative effects. i.e. sex is better when you don't have it every day.
Thursday, July 23, 2009
my deepest apologies =)
i have been experiencing some technical difficulties with my laptop so i haven't been blogging all summer. "i'm sawwy" as omar would say lol. but i promise that once school starts, i will be back on my grind and blogging as usual.
love you guys! *muah*
Friday, July 17, 2009
more bold than beautiful =/
lately I have been listening to nothing but mj tracks because his music just completely captivates me. the beat is amazing. the instrumental just makes you wanna dance and snap and rock from side to side. i subconsciously do it every time i hear his voice. there's something about a real artist that i truly enjoy. however, when i do decide to take a break from my mj history album, i am somewhat annoyed. the first time i heard the song 'wet' by twista i was so unbelievably disgusted and uncomfortable that i didn't even want to listen. so much for mystery. and when i change the channel i hear 'birthday sex' (which i never really liked to begin with). oh and when i change the channel again, i hear 'every girl'. now don't get me wrong ; i listen to my set of raunchy music every now and then but what ever happened to REAL music. REAL lyrics. REAL love songs. REAL beats. REAL singers. back in the day, my parents listened to songs like 'let's get it on' by marvin gaye which could be placed in a sexual category but the beat, the lyrics and his voice are smooth and rich. whereas now and days we have no problem with making a record saying that 'i wanna f*ck you. we don't have to be in love. its whatever. spread your legs. suck my...' well, you get the point. but i would die for some dru hill or boyz II men. the kind of songs that are actual love songs. but of course my generation doesn't believe in love so there goes that idea.
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
foolish.
lately i have been questioning the meaning of friendship.
i think that often we want to be popular. we want to be that "it" girl or guy that everybody knows and wants to know. but is it not enough to have a few best friends and have a couple of GOOD friends and then leave everybody else to be labeled an associate ? that's good enough for me.
by now, we should know when someone is using us or being genuine. we should be able to tell the difference between someone who is plastic and someone who has substance and can contribute to our lives. but for those of us who can't figure these things out . . .
i think that often we want to be popular. we want to be that "it" girl or guy that everybody knows and wants to know. but is it not enough to have a few best friends and have a couple of GOOD friends and then leave everybody else to be labeled an associate ? that's good enough for me.
by now, we should know when someone is using us or being genuine. we should be able to tell the difference between someone who is plastic and someone who has substance and can contribute to our lives. but for those of us who can't figure these things out . . .
Sunday, July 5, 2009
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