redefining beauty .

she removes her dress and steps out of her 3 inch heels as she scrounges for her only pair of basketball shorts that she loves. she slips on her pale beige flip flops while removing all of her jewelry piece by piece. she stands at the marble sink and takes a minute to acknowledge the mirror. . . then proceeds to continuously splash her face with warm water just to flush the toxins out of her beautiful brown skin. her bold, almond shaped eyes are alone on a pallet of natural beauty. she brushes her long black hair into a ponytail where pieces are falling from the hair-tie so raggedly wrapped around her hair. she flops onto the bed without even looking. he rolls over abruptly, wraps his arms around her and squeezes her until she expels into uncontrollable laughter. a natural red tint engulfs her cheeks. upon release he whispers, i love you.

words of wisdom ;)

every other day i have a breakdown and then a major epiphany that reshapes the way i think/feel about PEOPLE.

today's epiphany : life is full of obstacles. first , you gotta get over the people.

this goes so hard ! lmao.

if you're not from baltimore , you probably wouldn't understand . hahaha. this is a summary of our pre-college lifestyle in about three videos . enjoy :)

lustful thinking.

softly whisper in my ear and caress me with the ideas at your fingertips

you tickle my thoughts when your tongue flickers

and lubricate my cerebrum .

you exert pressure , provoking reactions

stimulating hidden nerves

sending electric chills up and down my spine

intensifying the functions of the cerebellum

increasing my energy

and rejuvenating ME



finally, you slowly seduce my brain stem

using your lips to extract my last breath

. . . just to entice me .

I'm weak.



my body melts into relaxation

releasing complex and utter frustration

intellectual bliss.

oh em gee. lawd take me now !

this should be illegal. period. my guy is great but damnnnn. lol. trey does it AGAIN.

out of the box.

we used to call a woman with little to no fashion sense , no make-up and no particularly amazing physical features a plain jane but now in the turn of the 21st century , we have coined the term "basic bxtches" -- mostly because it's hilarious . a basic bxtch is the new BLACK plain jane and the polar opposite of a 5star or BAD bxtch .


1. can we please stop calling ourselves bxtches ? lol .

2. define BAD.

when i ask most guys to define a bad female, they say she has sex appeal, looks pretty with or without make-up, has an amazing body, and dresses nicely. well i completely agree but i don't think that a female without all of these features is necessarily basic either. if you are comfortable with your figure, in converses, jeans and a t-shirt, be comfortable. in my opinion, being bad does not constitute that you wear heels everyday and pile on tons of make-up and an outfit that accentuates everything. i think it has more to do with your personal style and your confidence. it's a catch 22 because so many girls think that posessing all of these qualities will make her confident but in order to posess these qualities, you have to be confident in the first place. that's the key to being bad.

the messages that subliminally influence our everyday lives make it hard for girls to appreciate their own beauty and to be confident in themselves. everybody is too busy being "the baddest" or a freakin barbie doll that they're missing the bigger picture. i'll admit that i am flattered when a guy says, "shawty bad" or whatever lol. but at the same time, i'm not trying to please anyone but myself. at the end of the day, you're your own biggest fan. so be the baddest YOU that you can be. don't let dudes, songs, artist or the media define who you are or who you wanna be.

lmmfao!

this snuggie commercial has me weak! this lowkey made my night =]