lately i have been questioning the meaning of friendship.
i think that often we want to be popular. we want to be that "it" girl or guy that everybody knows and wants to know. but is it not enough to have a few best friends and have a couple of GOOD friends and then leave everybody else to be labeled an associate ? that's good enough for me.
by now, we should know when someone is using us or being genuine. we should be able to tell the difference between someone who is plastic and someone who has substance and can contribute to our lives. but for those of us who can't figure these things out . . .