***IF YOU WERE NOTHING THEN, YOU ARE NOTHING NOW***
I find myself constantly having this conversation with my friends because we're soooo sick of it. I'm so sick of people living their lives in the shadows of others and then using college as a chance to shine. you have a chance to start over. yes. we all have taken advantage of that. but , starting over does not mean re-creating you. you are who you are regardless of what anyone else thinks. at the end of the day, you have to look in the mirror and love yourself. no one else. and right now, this whole guy/girl thing may seem like a big deal. but it's not. right now, nothing is a big deal. we are rising sophomores and the drum of life beats whether you prove yourself or not. when you go to college, you are expected to change. but some people need to evaluate the changes they are making. are they positive ? do they reflect the kind of person that you really want to be ? if all of these people disappeared tomorrow , would you look at yourself the same way ? if the answer to any of these questions is no , then you need to take a time out this summer to reflect on your social being. let's grow up, shall we ?