Thursday, April 2, 2009

rough nigga shit ?







so me and one of my best friends, Imani have actually talked on the phone like 3 times this semester which is a record. lol. and basically we came to the conclusion that we're somewhat retarded and contradictory because we're from Baltimore City and we like rough dudes. not to say that we like ignorance or abusive men! but we do like to be around dudes that have that urban factor. there is a difference. this is the perfect guy in our eyes (minus all of those other typical beautiful qualities):

1. you have to KNOW (not be) at least one drug dealer. if you've never met one or if you don't know one, you wouldn't be able to deal with our friends or family. annnndd you're probably from a whack no man's land.
2. you have to have that urban factor. meaning, you can defend yourself at any moment and you're always down for whatever.
3. you have to be well rounded. you can be real hood but at the same time, you're educated and you do what you gotta do to be successful---legally.

and this is why we always fall for the wrong guys!...lmao. and we know this and we acknowledge this. we want these guys that we can relate to but then they always have these qualities that everybody else wants, so it always gets messy. regardless, we will continue to be hard headed and search for the ones that meet our criteria until one day, we find the right one. maybe I already have.

2 comments:

  1. tonight makes 4 times right?!
    lol but ya there def a great chance that u found it
    im still searchin and the second pic says a lot to my state of mind lmao
    but uh ya no doubt no doubt!
    =]

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